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We accept the love we think we deserve Quote Meaning:

All of us want to be loved. Expecting to be loved is natural.  We need someone to validate our thinking and feelings and to have someone significant in our life. We accept the love we think we deserve. When your self-esteem is low, you accept the first proposal rather than the best proposal. Because of this, the relationship gets strained in the middle, and we are in the constant continuous search of someone upon whom we wish to pour our feelings.

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We accept the love we think we deserve

Author: Stephen Chbosky

Source – Book: The Perks of Being a Wallflower – Page 24, An Americal Novel was written in 1999 by Stephen Chbosky

Quotation Reference:

http://m.imdb.com/title/tt1659337/quotes

We accept the love based on what we think we deserve. What we think we deserve is mainly determined by the level of self-esteem of the person. If you have high self-esteem, you would consider the other person below yourself and neglect their love. You would be very choosy in accepting the love as you think you deserve much better. When your self-esteem is low, you accept anyone who shows a little love towards you. We accept the love immediately because we think that is what we deserve.

We accept the love we think we deserve context in the novel and movie

The novel is converted into motion picture under the name, The Perks of Being a Wallflower. Watch the below 3-minute clip which contains the quote “We accept the love we think we deserve”.

In the story, there is a moment in which the girl and the boy who were in love just broke off. In that scene, she asks the boy “why does everyone I love keep choosing the people that hurt us.”. The boy replies that “we accept the love we think we deserve”.

Explanation of We accept the love we deserve Quote

If you start reflecting your life and the relationships you had accepted in your life. Sometimes you would have accepted someone who gave a lot to you but you would have given less in return. Sometimes we accept the love we think we deserve and would have given a lot to them but received very little in return. These kinds of relationship, when it is withdrawn, you feel sad and work hard to improve upon the relationship. You get tired of proving that you still deserve the love and lose hope in the relationship.

For those who have high self-esteem, Are we picking the right person to date who perfectly fit our standards?

No. I don’t think at all. We accept the love we deserve. We have to settle with someone who is substandard but not below the lower level of our expectation. People accept love from others based on what they think they deserve in the relationship. If a woman thinks that she does not deserve respect is likely to be in a relationship where there is no respect for her. She will be willing to accept and settle with that; while others who think they deserve self-respect will not.

If you think you deserve better you will not act as though you are in a desperation to be in the love.

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